Having a significant other who is my Crew Chief has been an eye opener. She is really getting into this and is super supportive. Her only complaint is that it is boring for her between on-track sessions. I told her to do her thing (read meet other ladies, etc) and that worked well for her. She is always there if I need a hand be it at the track or at home. We balance the car against other activities together and on our own-she shops I mow grass<G>.
As others here will attest-it is very important to know what your spouse or partner needs/wants. Mine does not want to drive yet. If she decides to that is fine with me-I'll support her in her effort.
Happiness is a race car that does NOT consume you.

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Grandpa's toys-modded suspensions and a few other tweaks
'89 CRX Si-SCCA ITA #99
'99 Prelude=a sweet song
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