in lieu of a track day, get that car to an autocross.

it is cheap.
it is likely closer.
you will learn the basics of car control for that particular car.
you will get some idea of where to set tire pressure, etc.
if it is about to break, you will break it.

autocross may be the worst deal on a $ per minute on track but don't dismiss it from a learning viewpoint. you will enough going on with situational awareness on track to be learning car control near the limit as well.

when is the driver's school? post up that you are looking for crew/help here or on http://www.roadraceautox.com/ and you should be able to find some if your rally friend can't help out.

and save 7/31-8/2 or so for Mid-Ohio and the IT Spectacular!